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Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Why ar?
I have been thinking alot alot of things... ...
If u have a boyfriend that anything also go along with u; n you can always have yr own way...
Or keeping everything to himself without letting problems be solved by sharing...
U'll continue to be like what u used to be.
In the end, everything comes back again.
But, when u have a boyfriend that tells u that u shouldn't do this; that u listen to what he got to say about u (gd as well as bad pts) and sometimes also analyse what's wrong with this & that...
U might think about what he had said to you previously when at night or when u're alone and eventually, u might agree with him in the end.
And there might be a change in the way you do things and the way you look at things.
Yes, it's nice to tell and say out what's wrong and what's right; what yr opinions r, etc.
But, why do ppl always want to know the outcome?
Is it that the finally outcome is so much important?
In certain things, we cant keep looking into the future; in the long run.
We also need to look into the present; NOW.
Just like for example;
now already has communication problem between the both of u and both parties didn't want to talk abt it at all, problems will only keep coming.
U have talk it all out in yr heart whatever it's bothering u. share them.
Dig everything out. Try to settle together; dont try to solve it alone. It will never work.
Be careful of using the correct phrasing; correct tone; correct expression.
These all might lead to misunderstandings. So be very careful of using words.
Think properly before u actually say something that u wan things to work out yr way & conveying the correct msg to the other party.
If keep thinking abt the outcome; & wanting to know more; what will happened?
"There is no such thing as a failed experiment, only experiments with unexpected outcomes” ...
We will never know what r the outcomes.
We cant judge it ourselves. it might like this. it might like tt.
"Doing is usually more important than the outcome."
But, things have already gone this far. We have done our part already.
Seriously, it's now up to the person whether she or he wans to accept it, admit it and take it to heart.
We have to think before we actually sign the divorce papers.
We cant jus sign without even thinking.
i know sometimes in certain situations also need to think of the consequences too.
Do you love me?
Do you care?
Why do u have to ask this qn if u already know the answer in yr heart?
Heart to heart. U can tell by emotionally, physically and also mentally too.
The answer lies in you.
So there's no need to even ask the qn and answer this qn.
I have been thinking...
If you dont like mushrooms for an example, then the dish u ordered is full of mushrooms.
Oh no... U'll be wondering how to take them all out.
This is bad, but as u eat, u can actually take them all one by one as u see them.
Hmm... That's why certain things; need to see how things go then plan n get conclusions.
Am i right?
Dont do things in a rush. Think again.
If u dig into yr food; using the spoon, the fork or chopsticks, trying to get all the mushrooms out then u start eating... the food have already turn cold by then.
I have been thinking alot alot of things... ...
If u have a boyfriend that anything also go along with u; n you can always have yr own way...
Or keeping everything to himself without letting problems be solved by sharing...
U'll continue to be like what u used to be.
In the end, everything comes back again.
But, when u have a boyfriend that tells u that u shouldn't do this; that u listen to what he got to say about u (gd as well as bad pts) and sometimes also analyse what's wrong with this & that...
U might think about what he had said to you previously when at night or when u're alone and eventually, u might agree with him in the end.
And there might be a change in the way you do things and the way you look at things.
Yes, it's nice to tell and say out what's wrong and what's right; what yr opinions r, etc.
But, why do ppl always want to know the outcome?
Is it that the finally outcome is so much important?
In certain things, we cant keep looking into the future; in the long run.
We also need to look into the present; NOW.
Just like for example;
now already has communication problem between the both of u and both parties didn't want to talk abt it at all, problems will only keep coming.
U have talk it all out in yr heart whatever it's bothering u. share them.
Dig everything out. Try to settle together; dont try to solve it alone. It will never work.
Be careful of using the correct phrasing; correct tone; correct expression.
These all might lead to misunderstandings. So be very careful of using words.
Think properly before u actually say something that u wan things to work out yr way & conveying the correct msg to the other party.
If keep thinking abt the outcome; & wanting to know more; what will happened?
"There is no such thing as a failed experiment, only experiments with unexpected outcomes” ...
We will never know what r the outcomes.
We cant judge it ourselves. it might like this. it might like tt.
"Doing is usually more important than the outcome."
But, things have already gone this far. We have done our part already.
Seriously, it's now up to the person whether she or he wans to accept it, admit it and take it to heart.
We have to think before we actually sign the divorce papers.
We cant jus sign without even thinking.
i know sometimes in certain situations also need to think of the consequences too.
Do you love me?
Do you care?
Why do u have to ask this qn if u already know the answer in yr heart?
Heart to heart. U can tell by emotionally, physically and also mentally too.
The answer lies in you.
So there's no need to even ask the qn and answer this qn.
I have been thinking...
If you dont like mushrooms for an example, then the dish u ordered is full of mushrooms.
Oh no... U'll be wondering how to take them all out.
This is bad, but as u eat, u can actually take them all one by one as u see them.
Hmm... That's why certain things; need to see how things go then plan n get conclusions.
Am i right?
Dont do things in a rush. Think again.
If u dig into yr food; using the spoon, the fork or chopsticks, trying to get all the mushrooms out then u start eating... the food have already turn cold by then.